The Shopping Cart Theory has been floating around the internet and social media. There is a theory that a shopping cart/trolley can determine your character and whether a person can self-govern. The theory says that, because there is no reward or mandate or punishment for returning carts, people who return the cart to the corral … Continue reading The Shopping Cart Theory Is Ableism
Originally posted on Love, Geeky Girl By: Dani Kessel Life is hard. It just is. I’m not going to sugar coat it. I won’t pretend things are all okay when that’s just not the truth. Sometimes, I have to tell myself positive affirmations to keep me going. In case you’re struggling and need to hear those … Continue reading 25 Affirmations to Get You Through a Hard Time
This is probably one of the most vulnerable pieces I have written in a long time. I get extremely real about how my surgery and disability has affected my self-confidence recently. I don’t often talk about the struggles I have with my body-image. If you are also struggling, just know that you aren’t alone.
By: Dani Kessel
I’ve been struggling with my body image lately. I’m always hesitant to talk about my body image issues since I have been a mentor and role model to teenagers and my kiddo nieces. I have had to encourage them to improve their self-esteem, especially their body images. I feel like a hypocrite. I am going to be really vulnerable about these struggles I’ve tried to hide.
6 months ago, I had major spine surgery. I suffer from Complex Regional Pain Syndrome, CRPS, and had to have a spinal cord stimulator, SCS, implanted in my body to mitigate this nerve disorder. The majority of my problems post-surgery have been the grueling physical recovery and adjusting to the stimuli of having an SCS. There has also been lingering pain at the surgery sites and the still-present problems caused by CRPS. (Unfortunately, the SCS does not take the CRPS away…
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By: Dani Kessel
Hi everyone. My name is Dani. I suffer from Chronic Regional Pain Syndrome, limited mobility, and at least 5 different diagnosable mental illnesses. This affects my daily life resulting in a different normal than those who are ablebodied and neurotypical. I am a spoonie.
Plural noun: spoonies
- Someone suffering from disability and chronic illness/es that can be explained with the spoon theory.
“my sister calls herself a spoonie”
The spoon theory is a metaphor created by Christine Miserandino for the energy and ability limitations that disabled folks live with. The idea is this:
From waking up to falling asleep, every task throughout the day takes a certain number of spoons. Ablebodied, neurotypical folks have a nearly infinite number of spoons, so they don’t have to think about where their spoons go. Disabled folks have a finite number of spoons though…
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